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年英语教学法课件2024英语教学法课件由于英国过去在世界各地有许多殖民地的缘故,因此在现代,英语在许多国家与地区,都是通用语言或官方语言之一下面是我帮大家整理的英语教学法课件,希望大家喜欢Friends forLife—Joyce BrothersEventhough friend“is aterm ofendearment usedto describemany peoplein ourlives,we oftenhave ahard timeknowing whatthe termmeans.Psychologists identifyfriends as those who accept each other,confide ineach other and feel responsible foreach other.In ourtransient cultures,we dependmore onfriends forthings weonce got fromfamilies-emotional supportand ofteneven financialhelp.With somany peoplelivingaway fromtheir families,and somany peoplesingle into their thirties,friends provideessentialcompanionship.Friends canoccur anyplace-even surprise!in amarriage.This was the casewith me.I metand fellin lovewith MiltonBrothers atuniversity.He becamemy husbandsoonafter,and wewere together39years-until hedied atthe ageof
62.He wasmy best friend,and Istill misshim desperately.Since hedied,my sister,withwhom Ifought fiercelywhen wewere younger,hasbecome oneof my best friends.And rm alsovery closeto myonly daughter,Lisa inour lives,yet itcan be the mostneglected.Friendship outsidefamilial tiesor marriageplayssuch animportant rolein lifebecause with a friend,we can betheperson wewantto be.Their acceptanceaffirms thatself andlets usdevelop asindividuals.We makeno vowsto abestfriend,yet wehave unstatedexpectations:understanding,caring,concern.We expecta friendshipto last.Most of us havebeen makingfriends sincechildhood,so wetend tothink theprocessis instinctual.Then wefind thatthe heartof friendship-how tomake therelationship blossom,grow andsurvive-requires moreattention andskill thanwe thought.To RalphWaldo Emerson,“the onlyway tohave afriend is to beone.”Becoming friendsinvolves aprocess ofsharing,a gradualrelaxation ofvigilance overwhatpartners revealto each other aboutthemselves.Friends mustlearn tobalance the7inclination tobe openwith theneed tobe protectiveof eachother sfeelings.Abest-friendship getsout ofbalance whenthe intensitybecomes tooone-sided.Totaldisclosure isnt whatmakes intimacyin arelationship;it sthe listeningand sharing.1Increasing numbersof peopleare findingthat genderdoesn tmatter whenit comestofriendship,asthesexes minglemore oftentoday.Making friendswith someoneof theopposite sexcan bean eye-opening experience.〃Michael toldme whathe discovered:I wasworking onthe assemblyline withMarcia,just asI wouldwithaguy.And shekept pointingout howpatronizing I was,offering todothe workfor herbecause Ifelt shewas lesscapable.Then Michaelrealized hewas hearingthe samecomplaint fromhis girlfriend.So heinvitedMarcia outfor abeer andthey talked.learned abouttoday swomen fromher.What Iknew aboutwomen rd learnedfrom myfather.Iwasa generationbehind thetimes.Now Fm marriedtothegirlfriend Ihad whenI metMarcia,and Fm indebtedtoher forthat.She andI arestill goodfriends.Marcia andmy wifeare friends,too.Can youfix a broken friendshipIf youfeel aclose friendhas hurtyou,it s〃zworthwhile tosit downand say,If Ididn tcare aboutyou,F djust shrugmy shouldersandgo myown way.But sinceI docare,F dlike tostraighten thisout.”Then calmlytalkabout whathas happened.You mightfind its justa misunderstanding.I cant sayI headedabrokenfriendship withmy sister-our siblingrivalry wasnothingunusual.But sinceMilton died,she andI foundeachotheragain,and itmeans alot tome.The longerI live,the moreimportant itistofeel connected.And thatis whatwe dothroughfriends.Near theend ofhis battlewith cancer,Milton sentme tosee ournewgrand-daughter.I heldherandkissed herfor bothofus.When ItoldMilton rd donethis,he said,T IIalways bewith you,because partof meis inher,ineach ofour grandchildren.He dieda dayor solater.I havefour grandchildrennow,andwhat Miltonsaid istrue.I takethem,one byone,on adventuresall overthe world,andeach timeI findnew friendships.And Milton,mybestfriend,is alwayswith me.表示爱慕的话语;亲热的表示endearment:n.专业词语;术语;措辞term:n.
1.Psychologists identifyfriends asthose whoaccept eachother,confide ineachother andfeelresponsible for eachother.Paraphrase:Psychologists regardfriendsasthosewhoaccepteachother,trust eachotherand beresponsibleforeachother.心理学家将朋友定义为彼此接受对方,相信对方并对彼此负责的人Identify...as:to findout exactlywhat sth.is把..•确认为・・・短暂的;片刻的;转瞬即逝的transient:adj伙伴关系;友情,友谊companionship:n.
2.In ourtransient cultures,we dependmore onfriends forthings weonce gotfromfamilies-emotional supportand ofteneven financialhelp.Paraphrase:In ourcultures inwhichthings changequickly,we getmore thingsfrom friends,like emotionalsupportand evenfinancial support,which wegotfromfamilies before.在这个瞬息万变的时代,我们更加依赖朋友,从朋友处获得一些以前我们从家人那儿得到的东西,比如说,情感支持,甚至经济援助极其;绝望地;不顾一切地拼命地desperately:adv.分等级;军衔,职衔;地位;社会阶层;排;横列;行列rank:v n亲属关系;亲切感kinship:n.忽略;不予重视neglect:V.家庭的,家族的familial:v.肯定(某事)属实;申明;断言affirm:V.relationships in ourlives,yet itcanbethe mostneglected.Paraphrase:Friendship,together withmarriage andfamily relationship,is oneof themostimportant relationshipsinourlives,but sometimeswe overlookit andpay verylittleattention toit.友谊,同婚姻和亲情一样,是我们一生中最重要的关系之一(尤指宗教的)誓言,誓言vow:n.趋向,走向,倾向,趋于tend to:本能的(而非习得)的instinctual:变得更加健康(或自信,成功)blossom:v.
4.Then wefind thatthe heartof friendship-how tomake therelationshipblossom,grow andsurvive-requires moreattention andskill本文来源网络收集与整理,如有侵权,请联系作者删除,谢谢!。