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学生英语演讲稿如何成为受欢迎的人Ladiesandgentlemengoodafternoon.TodayIamheretosharewithyoumythoughtsonhowtobecomeapopularperson.Asweallknowpopularityishighlydesirableespeciallyinschoolorinsocialsettings.Beingpopularcanbringaboutmanybenefitssuchasmorefriendsbetterrelationshipsahigherself-esteemandevenabetterchanceofsuccess.Thereforeitisimportantthatwelearnhowtobecomepopularandbuildlastingrelationshipswithothers.Sowithoutfurtheradoletmesharewithyousometipsonhowtobecomeapopularperson.Firstlyweshouldlearntobeagoodlistener.Popularpeopleareoftenseenasgoodlistenersastheyshowaninterestinwhatothershavetosay.Thismeansthatweshouldnotinterruptpeoplebutinsteadallowthemtofinishwhattheyaresayingbeforewerespond.Weshouldalsoshowempathybyputtingourselvesintheirshoesandunderstandingtheirfeelingsandperspectives.Weshouldalwaysmakeeyecontactwiththepersonwearetalkingtoandtrytosteertheconversationtowardstheirinterests.Secondlyweshouldbeconfident.Confidenceisanattractivequalityandcanmakepeoplegravitatetowardsus.Weshouldcarryourselveswithprideandalwayshaveapositiveattitudetowardsothers.Thismeansthatweshouldavoidbeingnegativeorgossipingaboutotherpeople.Insteadweshouldfocusonourstrengthsandencourageotherstodothesame.Weshouldbeabletoexpressourselvesclearlyandefficientlyandnotbeafraidtospeakupinsocialsettings.Thirdlyweshouldbeourselves.Authenticityishighlydesirableandcanhelpusbuildlastingrelationshipswithothers.Weshouldnottrytobesomeonewearenotjusttoimpressothers.Weshouldembraceouruniquequalitiesandstrengthsandnotbeafraidtoshowourvulnerabilities.Thismeansthatweshouldnotpretendtolikesomethingjustbecauseitispopularbutinsteadhavethecouragetoexpressourownlikesanddislikes.Weshouldalwaysbetruetoourselvesandnotcompromiseourvaluesorbeliefsjusttofitin.Fourthlyweshouldbekindandhelpful.Peopleareoftendrawntothosewhoarekindandhelpfulastheyshowaninterestinothers.Thismeansthatweshouldbewillingtolendahelpinghandtothoseinneedandshowcompassiontowardsothersevenifwedonotknowthempersonally.Weshouldalsoavoidbeingmeanorjudgmentaltowardsothersasthiscanpushpeopleaway.Insteadweshouldalwaystrytobesupportiveofothersandencouragethemtoachievetheirgoals.Lastlyweshouldbeapproachable.Popularpeopleareoftenseenasapproachableastheyareeasytotalktoandfriendly.Thismeansthatweshouldalwayshaveasmileonourfaceandawelcomingattitudetowardsothers.Weshouldavoidbeingaloofordistantbutinsteadshowaninterestinothersandmakeagenuineefforttogettoknowthem.Weshouldalsotrytofindcommoninterestswithothersandengageinactivitiesthatwebothenjoy.Inconclusionbecomingapopularpersonrequireseffortanddedication.Weshouldbewillingtolistenbeconfidentbeourselvesbekindandhelpfulandbeapproachable.Byfollowingthesetipswecanbuildlastingrelationshipswithothersandbecomeapopularpersoninourschoolandsocialsettings.Rememberpopularityshouldnotbeourmaingoalbutinsteadourmaingoalshouldbetobuildauthenticandmeaningfulrelationshipswithothers.Thankyou.第PAGE页共NUMPAGES页。