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外刊1主题语境人际交往体裁说明文阅读建议时长7min原文出处PsychologyToday词数340难度★★★★文章导读很多人都有秘密,他们会选择和别人分享自己的秘密吗?如果会,又是和谁分享呢?LearntoShareYourSecretswithOthers你会和谁分享秘密呢?Thegreatmajorityofpeoplehavesecrets.WhomdopeopletrustwiththeirdeepestsecretsWeusuallyopenourheartstopeoplewhoaregoodlisteneisshowinterestandwillinglyoffeihelpandtoconsideratetolerantwarmandcompassionateindividuals.Whenaclosefriendshowscompassionandsensitivityprovidesrealhelporofferssocialsupporttheconfiderfeelsbetterabouthavingsharedthesecretcopesmoreeffectivelyandexperiencesbettermentalhealthandwell-being.Thereisatwo-waylinkbetweenrevealingsecretsandrelationshipcloseness:Revealingsecretstothosewithwhomwefeelclosebuildstrustanddeepensourrelationshipwhichmakesiteasiertoshareotherseciets.Actuallywerarelysharesecretswithindividualswhoarepolite.Perhapsbecausepolitelistenersappeartoconcernthemselveswithsocialrulesthanotherssuffering.Wealsodonotconfideinenthusiasticorlivelypeopleduetotheassumptionthattheyhavelessexperiencewithsufferingorarelesswillingtohelpsomeonewithseriousmatters.Nordowesharesecretinformationwithpeoplewhoareablebutunwillingtoholdasecret.WhywouldntapersonwanttoholdasecretBecauseitcanbeanemotionalandpsychologicalburdenforexamplelimitonesfreedomofexpressionparticularlyforthosewhoareveryclosetotheconfiderandhaveanoverlappingsocialnetwork.Comparedwithkeepingsecretstooneselfopeningoneshearttoothersisassociatedwithhealthandwell-beingbecauseconfidingsecretstendstobringsocialsupport.Youaremorelikelytoreceivesupportifyouconfideinindividualswhoarenotjudgmentalandarelesslikelytobeannoyedorangryifyoursecretconcernswrongdoingsandwithwhomyouhaveahighlysatisfyingrelationshiphighloyaltyandtrust.HowtoincreasethepossibilityofpeoplesharingtheirsecretswithyouBybeingmoreconsideratetolerantwarmnonjudgmentalcompassionatewillingtoofferhelpandsupport.Raisingtheseandotherstrengthsforexampleforgivingkindgratefullovingandreliablehastheadditionalbenefitofincreasingyourhappinessandimprovingyourmentalhealth.词汇积累金句赏析Weusuallyopenourheartstopeoplewhoaregoodlistenersshowinterestandwillinglyofferhelpandtoconsideratetolerantwarmandcompassionateindividuals.【句意】我们通常向那些善于倾听、表现出兴趣、愿意提供帮助的人以及体贴、宽容、热情和富有同情心的人敞开心扉【句式剖析】句子主干Weusuallyopenourhearts...@topeople与toconsideratetolerantwarmandcompassionateindividuals是and连接的并列结构,表示敞开心扉的对象;
②whoaregoodlistenersshowinterestandwillinglyofferhelp是who弓I导的定语从句,彳修饰先行词people其中aregoodlistenersshowinterest和willinglyofferhelp是由and连接的并列结构Revealingsecretstothosewithwhomwefeelclosebuildstrustanddeepensourrelationshipwhichmakesiteasiertoshareothersecrets.【句意】向那些我们感觉亲密的人透露秘密可以建立信任并加深我们的关系,这使得分享其他秘密变得更加容易【句式剖析】句子主干Revealingsecrets...buildstrustanddeepensourrelationship...©Revealingsecretstothosewithwhomwefeelclose是v-ing短语作主句的主语;
②withwhomwefeelclose是“介词+whom”引导的定语从句,修饰先行词those;
③whichmakesiteasiertoshareothersecrets是which引导的非限制性定语从句,修饰前面整个句子;©makesiteasiertoshareothersecretsumakeit(形式宾语)+adj.(宾补)+todosth(真正宾语)”结构,可用于该结构的常见动词还有think和findYouaremorelikelytoreceivesupportifyouconfideinindividualswhoarenotjudgmentalandarelesslikelytobeannoyedorangryifyoursecretconcernswrongdoingsandwithwhomyouhaveahighlysatisfyingrelationship(highloyaltyandtrust).【句意】如果你向这些人倾诉,你更有可能获得支持,假如你的秘密涉及到错误行为,他们不会评判你,不太可能因此感到恼火或愤怒,他们与你的关系非常令人满意(高度忠诚和信任)【句式剖析】句子主干Youaremorelikelytoreceivesupport...
①ifyouconfideinindividuals和ifyoursecretconcernswrongdoings者B是if弓I导的条件状语从句;
②whoarenotjudgmental...ifyoursecretconcernswrongdoings和withwhomyouhaveahighlysatisfyingrelationship(highloyaltyandtrust)是and连接的并列的定语从句,共同修饰先行词individualso配套练习
一、单句语法填空Thereisagrowingtendforpeopletoworkathomeinsteadofinoffices.Heusedtomakedifferentassumptionofwhatwouldhappeninhisexperiment.3Timepermittingstudentscanfindapart-timejobtodecreasetheboftheirfamilies.Ihavegreatdifficultytoleratehisbehaviorforheisalwaysfindingfaultwithme.5ItwasveryconsiderofyoutosendmeapostcardwhenyouwereonholidayinHongKong.Thefanscheerenthusiasticfortheirfavoriteplayersandteamswhorespondbyplayingbetterthanbefore.7Cyclingisgoodexercisewhichcanhelptostrengthallthemusclesofourbody.二句子翻译1他钦佩那些为实现梦想而努力的人who引导的定语从句2当我们遇到困难时,老师经常是我们可以求助的人“介词+whom引导定语从句⑶中国修建了更多的高速公路,使得人们从一个地方到另一个地方旅行变得更加容易makeit+adj.+todosth.
三、其他WhatsthebenefitofsharingsecretswithfriendswillingtohelpusA.Beingagoodlistener.B.Becomingmoreconsiderate.C.Learningtohelpothers.D.Gettingbettermentalhealth.WhydoweseldomsharesecretswithpolitepeopleBecausetheyusuallycantkeepasecret.Becausetheyhaveapsychologicalburden.Becausetheypaylessattentiontootherspain.Becausetheydontunderstandyourbadexperience.WhatsthelastbutoneparagraphmainlyaboutTheadvantagesofconfidingsecretstoothers.Theindividualswhoarewillingtoconfide.Thespecificwaystoearnsocialsupport.Thesuggestionsofopeningonesheart.WhatcanwedotomakeotherswillingtosharetheirsecretswithusA.Beingalivelyperson.B.Makingmorefriends.C.Increasingourmentalhealth.D.Offeringtohelpothers.参考答案外刊1配套练习
一、单句语法填空【答案】
1.tendency
2.assumptions
3.burden
4.tolerating
5.considerate
6.enthusiastically
7.strengthen
二、句子翻译【答案】l.Headmiresthosewhoaremakinggreateffortstorealizetheirdreams.
2.Whenweareintroubleourteachersareoftenthepeopletowhomwecanturnforhelp.
3.MorehighwayshavebeenbuiltinChinamakingitmucheasierforpeopletotravelfromoneplacetoanother.
三、其他【答案】l.D
2.C
3.A
4.D【解析】
1.细节理解题由第一段第四句Whenaclosefriendshows...theconfiderfeelsbetterabouthavingsharedthesecretcopesmoreeffectivelyandexperiencesbettermentalhealthandwell-being.可知,和朋友分享秘密可以使分享者获得更好的心理健康故选Do.细节理解题由第二段第二句Perhapsbecausepolitelistenersappeartoconcernthemselveswithsocialrulesthanothers9suffering.可知,有礼貌的人更关心自己的社会规则,而不是别人的痛苦所以,礼貌的人不是很好的倾诉对象是因为他们很少会关注别人的痛苦故选Co.主旨大意题根据倒数第二段可知,与自己保守秘密相比,向他人敞开心扉与健康和幸福有关,因为吐露秘密往往会带来社会支持对一些可靠的人吐露心声,你更有可能得到支持因此本段主要讲述向别人敞开心扉,分享秘密的好处故选Ao.细节理解题由最后一段Howtoincreasethepossibilityofpeoplesharingtheirsecrets...willingtoofferhelpandsupport.可知,主动帮助别人可以让别人更乐意与我们分享秘密故选Do核心词汇释义considerate/kensidarst/的.考虑周到的;体谅的;体贴的considerv.考虑;认为;体谅considerableadj.重要的;相当大的;可观的considerationn.考虑;体贴tolerant/tn1arant/adj.宽容的;容忍的;有耐受性的tolerancen.宽容;容忍toleratev.容许;忍受;容忍enthusiastic/in।9ju zi岔stik/〃矽.热心的;热情的enthusiasticallyadv.热情地;热心地enthusiasmn.热情;热心;热爱的事物enthusiastn.热心人;热衷者;爱好者assumption/asampJn/n.设想;假定assume也假定;设想assumed〃力•.假定的;假装的burden/b3dn/n.负担;重负;(义务、责任等的)重担tend/tend/也倾向;趋向;照料,照管tendencyn.趋势;倾向strength/streg0/儿力气;强度;长处strengthenv.加强;变坚固strongadj.强壮的;强烈的;强劲的拓展词汇释义compassionate/kamp改后nat/adj.有同情心的compassion机怜悯;同情confider/kan5faida/n.吐露秘密的人confide也吐露(秘密,心事等);倾诉cope/kaup/V.应付;处理overlapping/aovelsepi]/adj.相互重叠的。